Who am I,whom do I want to become?

When you focus on wanting what you can't have, you fail to appreciate what's right in front of you.

Don’t argue for the sake of arguing. Some just need to find flaws in everything or disagree just to be disagreeable. The Almighty dislikes such acts. You don’t always need to have the last say & be the smartest person in the room. Choose your battles & have a sense of proportion.